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I've started a project with some friends to get some songs produced, covered and recorded. I have a friend that is going to allow us to use his studio once we have some solid material set up. We're going to try and play every week, and it's going pretty well so far- we have one song almost finished after our first session.
Other than my bandmates, I've almost completely stopped hanging around people my age. I hang out at my local college with a circle of mainly 10 people(??), I went to open mic there for the first time a few months ago and met some awesome people. Ever since, except for a month or so after the first open mic, I've been hanging out with them. There were/are(it's a complicated thing) some mutual feelings between an amazing girl I met and I, but 17 doesn't legally mix with 23- so that will have to wait a few months.
To add to the mix of emotional turmoil that I've been going through recently, I've started talking to a girl I met a few years ago again. We had really passionate feelings for each other then, and talked for hours about them over the phone last week. Turns out they might not have gone away(that's why that ^^ was complicated). This is a problem because we talked about how we felt all night, and I was really starting to feel loved- but she is with someone else and I have to keep my distance in respect for what they have. Also there's a difference of a few states. So I'll have to forget about all that.
It's old news by now, but my (now ex)girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me I don't even know how long ago. I honestly didn't mark the date or anything. I'd like to first admit that I presented reasons for her to do that, and I don't deny that. I didn't share my emotions often, she felt as if I was invalidating her feelings when she wanted to talk about them, and there wasn't a whole lot we had in common anymore. It's not really my place to say since I'm the one who got dumped, but I think I should mention some areas where I felt there could have been improvement. I felt as if she wanted me to care for her emotions with no regard to how I felt, I felt like there was a lot to her that she wouldn't tell me(maybe that's why she got with someone the day after we broke up, idk. I can't say), I wanted to feel like I was enough for her and I never did. I don't have bitter feelings towards her because I know I fucked up, and because I hope she is legitimately happy with the person she is with. I want her to be happy, and it doesn't bother me anymore that I'm not part of that equation. I don't know how she feels about me now, and that's stopped bothering me, too. I just hope it's not hatred by now, that's all.
Despite all of this turmoil churning in my head, I've been overjoyed recently. I have friends that I see every weekend and we make plans on like 3 out of 7 days of the week, which is nice. I've started to be much more outgoing- I'll do dance moves in public, I've been more straightforward about what I think, I've done fairly well in the flirting scene(haven't been shot down, which is a good feeling), I stopped playing video games almost entirely(Rocksmith teaches me some cool songs), and I've lost about 8 pounds since I started running. Looking beyond the bad, I feel ecstatic.
Other than my bandmates, I've almost completely stopped hanging around people my age. I hang out at my local college with a circle of mainly 10 people(??), I went to open mic there for the first time a few months ago and met some awesome people. Ever since, except for a month or so after the first open mic, I've been hanging out with them. There were/are(it's a complicated thing) some mutual feelings between an amazing girl I met and I, but 17 doesn't legally mix with 23- so that will have to wait a few months.
To add to the mix of emotional turmoil that I've been going through recently, I've started talking to a girl I met a few years ago again. We had really passionate feelings for each other then, and talked for hours about them over the phone last week. Turns out they might not have gone away(that's why that ^^ was complicated). This is a problem because we talked about how we felt all night, and I was really starting to feel loved- but she is with someone else and I have to keep my distance in respect for what they have. Also there's a difference of a few states. So I'll have to forget about all that.
It's old news by now, but my (now ex)girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me I don't even know how long ago. I honestly didn't mark the date or anything. I'd like to first admit that I presented reasons for her to do that, and I don't deny that. I didn't share my emotions often, she felt as if I was invalidating her feelings when she wanted to talk about them, and there wasn't a whole lot we had in common anymore. It's not really my place to say since I'm the one who got dumped, but I think I should mention some areas where I felt there could have been improvement. I felt as if she wanted me to care for her emotions with no regard to how I felt, I felt like there was a lot to her that she wouldn't tell me(maybe that's why she got with someone the day after we broke up, idk. I can't say), I wanted to feel like I was enough for her and I never did. I don't have bitter feelings towards her because I know I fucked up, and because I hope she is legitimately happy with the person she is with. I want her to be happy, and it doesn't bother me anymore that I'm not part of that equation. I don't know how she feels about me now, and that's stopped bothering me, too. I just hope it's not hatred by now, that's all.
Despite all of this turmoil churning in my head, I've been overjoyed recently. I have friends that I see every weekend and we make plans on like 3 out of 7 days of the week, which is nice. I've started to be much more outgoing- I'll do dance moves in public, I've been more straightforward about what I think, I've done fairly well in the flirting scene(haven't been shot down, which is a good feeling), I stopped playing video games almost entirely(Rocksmith teaches me some cool songs), and I've lost about 8 pounds since I started running. Looking beyond the bad, I feel ecstatic.
So um. Yeah.
What I had with her is replaceable, and it's awful I've only just seen this now. I can watch movies and cuddle with other people, there are other people to have sex with, and I'm sure I won't have to look long for someone who makes me feel like less than human. Maybe it wasn't worth the miniscule moments of happiness that I felt, but I've learned from you.
I know that I need to be with someone that shares my interests, instead of pretending like we have a thing in common. I know I need someone that takes my emotions into account when they're feeling upset. I need someone that knows that they are asking too much of me, and that I'm not able t
I hope that phone call still plays in your head
I've stopped crying over you like I used to, now I just remember my mistakes and make an effort to change into a person that won't make that mistake with anyone else. I no longer wonder if you'll come back because it gets me nowhere. I used to be so confrontational and insensitive when I talked about a lot of topics, now I take others into consideration and have stopped letting my beliefs define me as a person, which has subsequently changed my values. I used to play video games for an escape from everyone, even you, in my life because I was stressed, now I go out and hang out with friends or run, and that makes me happy. I feel much better
My heart is on these pages, burn them for warmth
I feel I need to get this out.
The day after she left me, I found out over dinner that she was with someone else.
I felt confused because I couldn't process how or when or why this happened.
I felt relieved because maybe they would make her happy like I couldn't.
I felt angry with myself because maybe I could have noticed.
I felt stupid because I had stopped wondering if something was going on.
More than anything, I felt sick to my stomach. I immediately felt nauseous and uneasy.
Now
I feel like a criminal for trying to piece my happiness back together
I hesitate when I have to call a girl two chairs from me by name
I misspelled a word
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Being able to articulate passion in so few words or expressions is a beautiful talent to have. That's why a haiku could mean more to you than a novel, or why a six word short could describe you better than a biography.
With all the meaning that such unseeming or unsightly things can carry, it seems a bit strange that we devalue things like "I miss you" or "hold me".
It must be said that I think asking someone to hold you carries more weight than most things you can say to them. I think this because it puts you in a state wherein they are given a sole task- holding you. But for you, it means keeping sanity within your grasp and sort of defle
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